Why Love?

Certainly I am talking about "Pyarr" between a Girl and a Boy. Why Love? The answer depends upon have you ever been in love? If Yes then "Why Love?" and even if it is No then "Why Love?".

Love is both pain and joy. I am sure you are thinking how it could be but this is a damn true; either you accept it or not. When in love you feel like flying, you are the only one, world is so good to live on, thank you very much God for this wonderful wonderful life; but time changes even in love like seasons after a colorful Spring it is natural; Autumn will come......

You can not eat, sleep or even think well either in love or having a break up, there is always a thought of her remains, consciously or unconsciously in your brain, continuously looking at your cell phone, "may be now she calls, or even message". The minute hand of the wall-clock runs like never before; so slowly. Amazing love! I do not have words to explain it, and know that I will never have those words. Than Why Love?

I have heard people saying that they have everything in life because they have someone special, someone whom they love blindfolded, someone who is a sailor of their life; and after a while the same people but this time with different words that they have nothing left in their life because of that someone, that someone who is no more in their life,whatever would be the reason but, they are lonely now, so lonely. Then Why Love?

Sometimes the reason behind not together are so stupid, you will think about them and will say "was that the reason we are not one now? I was so childish!" but once time goes away, it never comes back again. You are crying deeply; but on one comes to help you out, even the one whom you love too much more then your life, whom you treated like the only shining star of your life, one that is permanent in your memory, one you can not explain, what she means to you. Sometimes the conditions are even worst, you have apologized to what you did, though that someone do not want to see you back in their life, the worst feeling anybody can ever have. Than Why Love?

Those are my views about love, I do not know; I am right or not, do not know the kind of impact it will give on reader's mind, I may be wrong; but having some snapshots around me I have found this.

However I pray to God that there should be no one who conceives the feeling "Why Love?"

-Govind     

Apologize....

"Apologize" looks a very simple word , very simple meaning "forgive me ,i want to say sorry"  but; yeah i know whenever but comes.... 

For me it is ,was or will be very tough to even just imagine my dear ones in gulf, sorrow,grief. I mean how can i even think about it .Yeah but again i know there are sometimes when i am wrong. Even though you are hiding/doing something for their well, this is your perception towards thing not their's .

Now i realize the thing , I want to say sorry to you from the bottom of my heart. Say this whenever you feel that you have done something that you are not suppose to do.there is no harm in doing that,even you'r intention was not wrong but things happen to be wrong some times.

And if you are on the other side again i know sometimes it is not easy to forgive, something hurt, painful more then a wound. But please give a next chance,things can be better,someone saying sorry this shows that he/she don't want to loose you,may be all he/she did was unknowingly. Give him/her chance to explain,try to realize thing for his/her side as well. This is the only way to maintain a relation. 

And most importantly the person on the other side love you infinitely that's why he/she did all these. 

Friends there is no harm in Saying Sorry  and please Forgive who is asking for it.

-Govind